<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5558939360732260529.post6798212882753164074..comments</id><updated>2009-07-05T21:33:21.079-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Ask a Manager: did I offend the company that just offered me a jo...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/feeds/6798212882753164074/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/6798212882753164074/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-i-offend-company-that-just-offered.html'/><author><name>Ask a Manager</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05281942480230532899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5558939360732260529.post-2167114946822144146</id><published>2009-07-05T21:33:21.079-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-05T21:33:21.079-04:00</updated><title type='text'>If you accept the offer, even if only verbally, yo...</title><content type='html'>If you accept the offer, even if only verbally, you have accepted that offer, period. You don&amp;#39;t back out after that. If you&amp;#39;re really concerned that they might rescind the offer, you can continue to interview -- as long as you have no intention of accepting any other offers (assuming Company A doesn&amp;#39;t rescind theirs).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you do go forward with the interview, regarding how to express interest to Company B without misleading them, just don&amp;#39;t use words like &amp;quot;you&amp;#39;re my first choice,&amp;quot; since they&amp;#39;re not. You can say things like &amp;quot;I&amp;#39;m very interested,&amp;quot; just not that they&amp;#39;re your first choice. (You also don&amp;#39;t want to say they&amp;#39;re NOT your first choice; just avoid talking in terms of first choices.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But even continuing to interview carries some risk. Imagine if someone at Company A happens to know someone at Company B and hears that you&amp;#39;re interviewing there, after having already accepted their offer and reassured them that they really are the job you want?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/6798212882753164074/comments/default/2167114946822144146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/6798212882753164074/comments/default/2167114946822144146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-i-offend-company-that-just-offered.html?showComment=1246844001079#c2167114946822144146' title=''/><author><name>Ask a Manager</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05281942480230532899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08556829722419384593'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-i-offend-company-that-just-offered.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5558939360732260529.post-6798212882753164074' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/posts/default/6798212882753164074' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5558939360732260529.post-4836956372580846461</id><published>2009-07-04T11:22:16.044-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-04T11:22:16.044-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you so much for the quick response!  I'll de...</title><content type='html'>Thank you so much for the quick response!  I&amp;#39;ll definitely follow your advice.  Hopefully all goes well!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just another follow-up question, would it still be ethical to verbally accept the offer at Company A then continue with a pending interview at Company B as a backup plan?  I&amp;#39;ve read in another website that I shouldn&amp;#39;t cancel an interview just because a company made me a written offer, since this can be rescinded.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thing is, Company A&amp;#39;s job offer isn&amp;#39;t really complete yet because I still have to pass a physical examination.  I do plan on accepting the offer first thing on Monday, but the official written contract is subject to the results of the exam.  Should I cancel my scheduled interview at Company B (which is also happening on that day), or should I go through with it anyway?  If I go through with it and end up being offered a job at Company B, and if things go well with Company A, I will end up having to decline Company B even when I told them in the interview that I&amp;#39;m very interested in working for them.  Like you said in your response, Company B&amp;#39;s HR personnel and interviewers will probably be annoyed with me.  What should I do?  I don&amp;#39;t want to burn any bridges and I want to protect my reputation.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Reader who sent the original question</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/6798212882753164074/comments/default/4836956372580846461'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/6798212882753164074/comments/default/4836956372580846461'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-i-offend-company-that-just-offered.html?showComment=1246720936044#c4836956372580846461' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://askamanager.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-i-offend-company-that-just-offered.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5558939360732260529.post-6798212882753164074' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5558939360732260529/posts/default/6798212882753164074' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>